The ladies sit for the duration of the evening, while the lads move from lovely lady to lovely lady every six to seven minutes.As we don’t use whistles - our hosts gently tap the lads on the shoulder to let them know it is time to move on.Instead of actual results with other human beings, I’ve spent more time instead considering how my photos look, what my bio says (and doesn’t say) and should I display my top Spotify artists? The process can be draining, especially with your phone at your fingertips.I feel like there’s a very relatable gray area between “I want to meet someone” and “I don’t want to deal with all this extra nonsense.”Sadé: I consider myself perpetually single.As in, I conveniently forgot their names.)Rewind two weeks: I'm hanging out with some girlfriends and one of them mentions how she saw a groupon-like deal for speed dating.
Dating is complicated for any generation, but millennials must contend with the double-edged sword of technology. Today I am, because I make the rules and I can change them if I want to. Uh, because I went speed dating this week, and chances are, you're probably curious about what that is/whether it was fun and if you should try it, and I've got your back. (Note: I've taken measures to protect the some of the innocent, stupid, and/or ridiculous people I met last night. Also, this story involves complete strangers, and therefore, is unlikely to come back to haunt me.Dates write down whom they fancy and if they have a match - they get notified the next day with details.With such busy lifestyles, speed dating is a highly efficient way to meet the most amount of people in the shortest amount of time.